Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes

Subject: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Sat Dec 31, 2011 2:45 pm

I know everyone has had one of these at some point or another. C; They can be hard to come by, and even harder to get over.

Rules
o Nothing inappropriate.
o Don't make fun of others.
o Try to help, not make people sick to their stomachs.
o Don't post your problem a million times.
-You can repost it three times at the most.
o Don't beg and plead for help.
o I'll add more if necassary.

Warnings
No one yet! :D

Banned
No one yet! :D

Talk away! XD

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Sat Dec 31, 2011 7:38 pm

Herp derp.

Admittedly, I've been crushing on this one boy for eleven years! xD Which is sad, but whatever. I dunno, I just don't usually look at people in that sort of way. I think my crush is fading though, he's turned into a bit of a prick recently. :c

Also, what do you do when somebody tells you that they like you. Through facebook. xD
"ok Jenna look, I know this might be a bit too soon and unexpected and I realize that I don't know you much but... I really like you. not just like like, i mean properly like you. I should stop talking."
LOL, gosh, it's going to be awkward when we go back to school in a couple of days. ;__; Because, erm, I don't see him that way. We're friends and all, and we have the same taste in music and stuff, but.. eep. :c I dunno, I kinda just want to let it fade away, let it go out of my mind.

/sigh xD

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Sat Dec 31, 2011 7:45 pm

Interesting! XD My current crush, I'll call him J, I've been liking for the past 3-4 months. :3 Unfortunately, he's getting on my nerves and being rather rude like your crush is.
I don't really trust anyone when they say something on facebook. If they truly meant it, then they would tell you face-tto-face. That's just my opinion though. ;3 Just tell him gently you like him as a friend, but not the way he likes you. Make sure you're gentle, or you could end up hurting him. ;)
It's going to be awkward returning to school between me and J. O.o
Good luck with your situations!

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Sat Dec 31, 2011 7:56 pm

xD I haven't seen him since December 21st. n__n
Ugh, don't want to go back to school, stupid stuck up girls and jerkface boys! :c

Eh, I think all crushes go through a rude phase though, my best friend's crush was being an idiot a couple of weeks ago, but it's all good now.

The awkward moment when your best friend has the biggest crush ever on your second cousin! xD

Good luck with your situation too! Coincidentally, the person I've been crushing on for ages also has a name starting with J. .o.

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Sat Dec 31, 2011 8:05 pm

I haven't seen mine since December 21st either! O.O We go back to school Wednesday.
I don't wanna go back either. Exactly the reason you said. XD

I'm sure they do. When J had his first girlfriend, I'll call her S, he was still nice. They went out for three weeks. Then he went out with...I'll call her M, his most recent ex-girlfriend. It was a couple days before breaks. Those last three days he was extremely rude. :/ He lasted not even two weeks with M. Now he's going out with...I'll call her D. For one, he doesn't even like her. My friend over heard him say who he likes, and she was not one of them. :s So why he asked her out, I'm clueless. D is one of those snotty female dogs. I know J's attitude and personality will most likely change greatly because of her, so that's mainly why I'm dreading school.

Wow, that is a really awkward moment. O.o Luckily, I don't have any friends that like my cousins in my grade. XP

And that's really funny that his name starts with J! XD

Ugg, I never mean to write so much, but when it comes to J, I always write a bunch. *sighs*

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Sun Jan 01, 2012 12:46 pm

Aw, I love hearing stories about crushes and stuff, its cute and interesting to listen to c: .

Well, ive been dating this sweet young man (I shall call him Pacos xD ) . We've been dating for almost four months, only three more days! c: . We might go out to eat or to a movie, either one is fine, I just like seeing him. We hang out a lot, and are best friends as well. The only sad part about our relationship is, he's a Senior and im a Sophomore. Its going to be a sad/happy day for when he moves out and go to college, but im happy for him working towards what he wants to do in life. We are going to try to make it work, and its sweet when he says "It is going to work, trust me." . *Dreamy sigh*

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Sun Jan 01, 2012 1:21 pm

Awwe! That is sweet! XD

I've decided that I'm going to get over J. At least try to anyways. I'm done playing his games. I'll still be his friend, and I'll always be there for him, but I'm not going to be anymore than a friend.
I'm tired of him doing things that upset me. It's not worth the stress anymore; I'm tired of losing sleep and feeling sick to my stomach all the time because of him. He just adds a lot of stress to my life.
I had a lot more to write, but I just lost my train of thought. -_- Gah, I need sleep so bad. D:

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Sun Jan 01, 2012 3:48 pm

Awww, it must be so nice to be in love with someone.. To be honest I've never had a serious relationship, never seriously fallen in love. ;___;
Last time one dude PM'ed me on Facebook, he's my classmate from primary school. He said that he likes manga and anime just like me, and showed some his drawnings. I still think that my artwork is better, but never said that. @@' And we decided to start dating. Nice fail. xD He broke with me after one week, I think it's because I was talking too lot about myself and treating him just like I treat my friends. He was just scared of me, I guess. :3 But it wasn't true love, I don't even feel hurted. I feel like feelingless doll, it's kinda creeppy. Maybe it's another reason of breaking. > . < Anyway, I think about that relationship like it was some kind of experiment, now I know men better, I know how I shouln't act when I'm with them. : D

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Sun Jan 01, 2012 4:18 pm

Good view! XD I've never been truly in love. :/ Never had a boyfriend. Never held a guy's hand (outside of square dancing in P.E. and family that is and). Never hugged a guy. (outside of family) I'm like a hopeless case. XD
No guy has ever even asked me out. A couple guys told me they like me, but the one I totally despise. The other one...I coud never see myself with him. He's just a friend, and that's all he ever will be.

As for J...I don't know what to do anymore. I guess I'll end the flirting, for one. Then I'll talk to him less. I'll scoot my chair a little ways away from his so we're not on top of each other, pretty much sharing seats, like we usually are. I'll make sure our knees touch no more. If he ever accidently smacks my thigh again-and it really was an accidnet-I won't be okay with it. I'll flip on him, I don't care. I just want to get over him so badly. He can keep going out with all the stupid, snobby girls that he likes, I don't care anymore. I'm just tired of everything.

Any of you ever feel like that? DX

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Sun Jan 01, 2012 4:51 pm

Alpha, you make me sad, you're not hopeless. There's always some hope. D:
Just flirting can't be enough, guys are like blind, there's no way that he'll notice that you love him. ;____;
Maybe you should give it a chance and tell him. Maybe it will be fail and you will see that he's not the person you're looking for and you just imagined that you like him so badly. Or maybe there will be happy happy ending like in movies. :'c

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Tue Jan 03, 2012 1:17 pm

Haha, thanks Aku.
Yes, guys are very blind. I can't tell him I like him while he's going out with someone though. :/ And a lot of girls like him. :s Grrz.
I've decided to give him just one more, last chance. Because to me, he's worth it. XD I really am tired of him making me lost sleep though. -_- I stay up until at least 1 A.M. because of him every night. ._. I shall find some way to either make him worth my while, or if that doesn't work, I shall shove him out of my mind and out of my life! XD For the most part anyways. lol

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Tue Jan 03, 2012 1:29 pm

I know what you feel, there was a guy like that in my life long time ago, all girls was in love with him. And I thought that I love him too, but now it's just hate. No, he didn't do anything mean to me, he was doing mean things whole the time to everyone he met, he was using others as servants, he was such an idiot and he's so ugly. I just noticed it pretty late, I'm so glad that I noticed. ._.'

Well, I hope that he won't waste the chance given by you. >3<

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Tue Jan 03, 2012 1:33 pm

Aw, I'm sorry to hear that. :'c But J's not one of those "popular" dudes that everyone just looooves. He's one of the more "hidden" dudes, though he's not a nerd, geek, or loser. XD He's just really cute and adorable. <3

Yeah, I hope he doesn't waste the chance either.

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Tue Jan 03, 2012 1:42 pm

No need, I really don't know how could I think that I love that. It just passed and I almost forgotten about him. c:
But everyone has some bad habits that you can hate him for. I guess. .3.

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Sat Jan 07, 2012 3:13 pm

Yes.

Well...awesome night last night with J. Not the best but...okay. XP Got a skittle from him. Cx I've had a bettter time with him at the basketball game, but this would probably be the second best. :3

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Sat Jan 07, 2012 5:18 pm

That's cute. :'3

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Sat Jan 07, 2012 8:16 pm

<3 lol I'm still trying to get over him. I don't know. Something's telling me I should wait, and something's telling me we're not meant to be. X3

He also looked like he wanted to sit down next to me. I'm not sure if he's going out with D or not still though, so if he is then that might be why he didn't ever sit next to me. XD He talked to me plenty though!! CX

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Sun Jan 08, 2012 5:40 am

Awww, so kawaii, maybe he was just shy! Hopefully he likes you much more than D~ :'>
You have to wait, relationships that start too fast are ending pretty fast too~ c:

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Sun Jan 08, 2012 6:25 pm

Yes, I hope he likes me much more than D. XD I'm pretty sure he's not shy though. I know him too well. cx

I'm a little hesitant with him though. He goes through girls pretty fast. When him and S broke up, he waited a month or two to ask M. When he broke up with M, he asked D out only a few hours later. >.< But him and D are so far lasting longer than he did with M. lol

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Mon Jan 09, 2012 8:13 am

That's what I said, he starts fast and ends fast all those relationships. But if you two will start going out, you see, it's taking so long to start, I wish you to start and I hope it will take as long as possible. Ties between you are much bigger than between him and all those gf's, right? I'm sure he will break with D too and give you a chance. >__<

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Mon Jan 16, 2012 6:10 pm

Ahh! So much to write! DX
First, bye bye J! lol He broke up with D after a week, then the same day asked M back out. Personally, I think he dated D to make M jealous or something.

I have a new crush, I'll call him T. So much to explain! XD Hold on one moment. ;P

EDIT: I posted this on CS. I don't feel like updating everything, so sorry if something is weird. Just ask and I'll do my best to answer your question if you're confused. ;P

Eeeeeep!! *squeals like crazy*

Lock in was amazing!!!!! And yes...I did find a new crush. c: Well, I guess I should explain everything. Also, when I refer to myself, as in my first name, I'm going to just put Ke, kay? Because I don't want to post my name, and...yeah, I'm lazy. XD

Anyways, so the lock in..yes. Okay, hmm, let's see. Uhm, where to begin?! Well, I guess, first off, I shall call my new crush T. J, out of the picture, gone. :D That makes me much happier. Anyways, I've met T a couple times before. Highschool football game, highschool basketball game, etc. Those kinds of things. But, we didn't really talk. (we did once) So, at the lock in, him and this other dude, I'll call him RB, were playing with a quarter. o_o So, then they flipped the quarter, it landed on the ground, and I covered it with my boot. RB just stared at me, like "really?". Then this other kid that goes to my school, (T and RB don't, they go to the school in the same district as ours though, so our schools are close) I'll call him Jo, was going to reach for the qaurter which was still under my boot with my foot inside. X3 He was like, "The qaurter's RB's. Can I have it back?" So I kicked the qaurter at RB.
Then T was like, "Hey! I know you! I've seen you before." Then he smiled. I just nodded. He was like, "What's your name? Who are you?" I was like,"...a person..." He just kinda stared at me and asked my what my name was again. I wouldn't tell him, so he was freaking out asking everyone, including Jo. Then one of the people working at the lock in said, "Why are you freaking out over this girl's name? Are you a stalker or something? You're being creepy!" T blushed and I laughed. So I had to keep walking by T to get more food and pop and stuff (yay for Mountain Dew!) and he kept staring at me, trying to figure out my name. Finally he stopped me on one of my trips back.
T: "Seriously, what's your name?"
Me: smiles
Jo: Pretends to be drinking his pop and whispers to T "Ke."
T: "What?"
Jo: "Ke."

Then T was like "Ke!" I was like "Mhm." as I nodded. So after that I'm like "What's up T?" His eyes got big and he was like "How do you know my name? Are you a stalker?!" I just replied with, "No, I'm not stupid." So then he pretended to be sad and said, "So you're saying I'm stupid for not knowing your name?" I started laughing and told him no and that he wasn't stupid.

We hung out like the whole night. It was amazing. He kept forgetting my name though. >.< But he said he was bad with names, and I believe him. Because he kept calling me a name close to mine, but it wasn't mine. XD It was so amazing. Then he told someone if they send him a friend request on facebook, he wouldn't accept it. I think it was...oh, now I remember who it was! My friend who kept telling him she was Chuck Norris because he didn't know her name. And once I told him her name, he forgot it. That also proved he is bad with names. I'll call my friend...Mi.

T: "If you send me a friend request on facebook, I'm not accepting it!!"
Me: "What about me?"
T: smiles "Sure, I'll accept yours!"

So we talked a lot, kept giving each other high fives, (weird, I know), and...yeah, it was just amazing. He's really sweet though. Before when I was around him, I never took any interest in him. I didn't think he was cute, I felt nothing towards him. But then tonight...it hit me like a brick wall. DX He's so super sweet, he's hilarious, and yes, I do think he's cute and adorable. XD He looks like he would be Jo's older brother, but he's not. And he's amazing at basketball too.

I did talk to RB occasionally, and I spoke a couple words to J just to be polite. Oh! The subject of J! XD Well, yes, him and M were both there. They hung out nonstop. And it made me realise, that I really don't like him anymore. I mean, yes as a friend, but all "loving" feelings towards him..they've just disappeared. I think me seeing him with M helped push me that extra bit and get me over him. Plus, being distracted by T, definetely helped.<3

So, I sent T a friend request on facebook. Since it was a lock in, and everyone stayed up all night, I'm assuming he crashed like I did when he got home. XD I fell asleep for six hours, but then my mom woke me up. -_- I can't wait until the next time he gets on facebook! ^^ And, after we become a bit closer, I shall ask him for his number! :D

Please note my name is not Ke, Mi's name isn't that, and Jo's name isn't that. I don't want to post anyone's names online. XD

I doubt you read this, because it was super long, but if you did then thanks.

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Tue Jan 17, 2012 1:50 pm

Hope that brick wasn't so painful. xD
I'm glad that you're in so good relationship with T. Looks like he was the first one who fallen in love. x3
It would be so funny if J fall in love with you after this. Damn, I'm mean, but I think he deserves it... o___o

Subject: Re: Boyfriends, Girlfriends, and Crushes Sat Jan 21, 2012 5:41 pm

lol
Yup, T is pretty amazing.<3 haha I love talking to him on facebook. C: It's only happened twice though, and he's rarely ever on. He told me that I'll most likely always have my special nicnkname.<3 Though, I don't really like my nickname, because it's a sweater. O.o I'm only allowing it though because it's him, haha. ;) He's just so AWESOME! It was pretty fun. :P I don't know what else to write, there's just so much!! lol
And yes, J definetely deserves it. He's going through girls way too quickly. Though him and M seem to be doing pretty good now. :] I'm happy that I'm over him, my life is so much easier. C: Though sometimes it can be a little awkward in science between us. DX And now that I'm letting my true, mean, irritable, grouchy self to him instead of my shy, flirty side, I don't think he likes me much. XD Though he likes to bug me and see how much he can aggravate me before I snap. -_-